Wow, sdlacrosse, I’ll go even further than the last poster did. Why would you post your message about Bokmeyer- isn’t he already gone from your program? You obviously have an emotional connection with the Rancho Bernardo program and this certainly isn’t the place to hammer a high school aged player because your son (if you are a parent) or you (if you are a player) isn’t getting the playing time or publicity you think you should get. Since I have not seen Rancho Bernardo play, I ‘Googled’ Bokmeyer and found a couple things. The North County Times Website shows him with 26 assists this year, which looks like it was 2^nd in the stats they had for the North County- but you said that he didn’t help his team. That just doesn’t make sense.    The other thing that I found was that on Westside Lax there was an article about him committing to play at Army. Since I don’t know Bokmeyer and I don’t know you, I will defer to the D1 coaching staff that obviously has evaluated his talent. My humble suggestion to you, sdlacrosse, is that if you are a parent, get a life outside of your son’s lacrosse career and if you are a player, work harder. 

I have never posted here before but I can’t let this attack on a high school student go unchallenged. I don’t really know the young man you reference in your comment, but I have seen him play against my son’s team the last two years and I also saw one other game Rancho Bernardo played this year. I know he was the focus of our defense in our game and he looks to be a very unselfish player.  I don’t know him or the RB program well enough to debate the points of your post, but if you really feel that you need to attack a high school player like this, then you should be man enough to put your real name on your post. Otherwise this sounds a lot like an attack by an unhappy RB parent or a bench player.